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Why I am Not having Sex

Just saw a cute Lebanese guy in my estate and I remember seeing him with a Nigerian girl, probably his girlfriend. And I imagined the kind of sex they would have; I know it’s weird, maybe it’s cause I’m ovulating I don’t know, lol. It made me wonder, why I am not having sex. And […]

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How to get over someone you love

  Love is a very beautiful thing and it could lead to happily ever after or it could lead to something disastrous.  There is indeed a thin line between love and hate.  But should that stop us from loving anyways? It never does and we shouldn’t try to. Just like a One Tree Hill quote; […]

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What happens if you lose your virginity before 22?

What happens after you lose your virginity? Well, life happens, you move on. You are still you – well with a broken hymen (ah, that sounds gross!). Well, it’s not that big a deal, I’ll tell you my story; Losing my virginity was with my first boyfriend –we dated for two years before I decided […]

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Why you should not make your boyfriend jealous

Most of us, especially young couples feel the need to make their boyfriend/girlfriend jealous, why do we do this though? Is it to get attention, to spice up the relationship or just to play games? Relationships comes with everything; the happy, the sad, the good, the bad and the ugly but it takes people that […]

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Thought he was the one, Guess I was wrong

People will always disappoint you, no matter who they are or who they used be.  Though it hurts when it’s someone you really love, it really hurts…You know, we date people and break up. Some we break up for good reasons, some for bad and some for something that don’t just make any sense.  Sometimes […]

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Being attracted to a married man

Yeah it just so happens that I’m attracted to really attractive married man. You know, I had no idea he was married when we met the first time – it was at my work place. Like I mentioned on balancing work and life…I work in a facility and this particular guy is in charge of […]

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What Married Men want from single girls

Sometimes I ask myself what married men want from single girl, in other words…why they cheat and I summarized it to a few things. You see, people always have reasons for what they do which is normal. These days, cheating seems to be what’s up and what’s hot, that if you are not doing so, […]

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Why do I keep having dreams of my ex?

Okay, since last year I’ve been having dreams of my ex, who was also my first love. From, my dating experience, you can see why it didn’t work out. Though, it was painful but it had to be done. After the breakup, I felt we had unfinished business or some closure to do  that each […]

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Don’t settle for less,you deserve better

That’s what I heard growing up; either from people, in a song or family but I never really understood it until life began to deal with me. Don’t settle for less, you deserve better, you are too good for this and that… And you know what? It is true. Despite what life throws at you, […]

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How lonely are you?

Relationship wise, I’m really lonely… well career wise as well. You know, sometimes I want my alone time. Yes I know I want someone in my life but sometimes I think about being with one person for the rest of my life. I know you are wondering if I’m alright,i promise you I am and […]